These defensive complexes may be - indeed, at least partly are - 'self-defeating' to the extent that we may 'block out' the chance of experiencingВ social feedback opposite to what weВ - via ourВ transference complexes - have come to expect. Thus, our transference complexes are subconsciously or unconsciously meant to be our own unique form of 'self-psychotherapy', 'self-healing', and/or 'psychic defense' against any possible further, similar traumacy and/or self-esteem injury. Our neurotic transference complex tends to be a 'conflicting intr-psychic and projected interpersonal battle' between the wish for 'psychological balance' and the wish for 'psychological extremism' in line with our own custom-made 'tranference-lifestyle' system of 'compensatory defense' against our own unique 'childhood (or later) narcissisticВ traumacies and self-esteem injuries'.

We all - at least to the extent that we are all partly or extremely 'neurotic' - waver between seekingВ 'homeostatic (dialectic) balance' (or 'equillibrium'), and gravitating back to our own 'custom-made' forms of 'neurotic, compensatory defensive systems' (which tend to 'fly' us back out to ourВ particular 'polar extreme'). (What brings us together can end up tearing us apart.) This means that we are 'psychologically battling' with the same characteristic, or the opposite characteristic, within us. It is a truism in psychology that what attracts us to our 'love interest' often ends up repelling us away from them. We can also turn the 'positve, love transferences' listed above upside down, and/or inside out - and talk about the possible and/or actual 'negative transference dynamics' attached to each of these different transference relationships.ДЄlmost all transference relationships - particularly romantic and/or sexual transference relationships - are 'ambivalent' meaning a combination of 'positive' and 'negative' transferences often attached to the same 'core, nuclear conflicting characteristic or set of characteristics'.

There are also possible sister or brother, grandfather or grandmother, friend, teacher, stranger 'transference complexes'. 'A Counter Narcissistic Transference Complex': Falling in love and/or being attracted to someone who we view as being 'opposite' to ourselves A 'Narcissistic Transference Complex': Falling in love and/or being attracted to someone who reminds us of ourselves Д§. A 'Mixed Oedipal and/or Counter-Oedipal Complex (MOCOC)': Subconsciously or unconsciously being attracted to someone who reminds us of some combination of our mother, our father, and/or their opposites Д¦. A 'Father OedipalВ Complex (FOC)': Subconsciously or unconsciouslyВ falling in love and/or being attracted to someone who remindsВ us of our father Д¤.В A 'Counter-Father-OedipalВ Complex (CFOC)': Subconsciously or unconsciously falling in love and/or being attracted to someone who we view as 'opposite' to our father ДҐ. A 'Counter-Mother-Oedipal Complex (CMOC)': Subconsciously or unconsciously falling in love or being attracted to someone whoВ we view as 'opposite' to our mother ДЈ. A 'Mother-Oedipal Complex (MOC)': Subconsciously or unconsicously falling in love or being attracted to someone who reminds us of our mother Дў. This being the case, seven different types of 'transference-love' relationships are quite common, four of which are 'Oedipal' or 'counter-Oedipal' transference relationships.ДЎ. 'Erotic-romantic fantasies' are generally assumed to be derived from real experiences and real memories - usually as 'compensations'В meaning 're-working unfinished encounters, events, relationships from our past' which is the work of our 'mastery compulsion' - unless again there is strong evidence to believe the opposite in terms of supposedly real memories being 'false memories'. This means that 'memories' from our childhood past are generally 'taken at face value' and 'assumed' to be 'real memories' - unless there is strong case evidence to believe the contrary. Freud's concept of 'The Oedipal Complex' is certainly worth keeping as long as it is utilized properly which means 'loosening the Freudian chains' on what it means.ДЄn 'Oedipal relationship' is a type of 'transference relationship' meaning that we are attracted to someone who reminds us of someone from our childhood past.

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